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COMPLETE LIFE CHANGE for new Christians is almost impossible without a mentor. Even then, a mentor must be an active participant in the changed life, not just an advisor. They must have a relationship that survives the many, many lapses at first, and a lot of patience on both sides. And a lot of extra time by the mentor- almost a life change in and of itself because of all the time it will take discussing, teaching, praising, exampling, oops-ing, praying.

More and more I am convinced we must explain life-change before their baptism. We are so anxious for them to "get baptized and save their souls," we are afraid they will change their minds if we TELL THEM THE HARD PARTS. The Christian life brings peace, but also demands. Look at Hebrews 10:22-27 - Those who purposely miss worship assemblies are "trampling under foot the blood of Jesus".

How not to miss can be complicated for some: Is someone sick? Take them to the doctor the day before worship; don't wait until Sunday. Are friends used to stopping by on Sunday morning for coffee? Be proactive and do it Saturday morning. Does the boss expect them to show up for work on Sunday mornings? Can they trade with someone and work on Saturday mornings instead? Do the grandparents expect the grandkids to spend Saturday nights and Sundays with them? How about adjusting it to Friday nights and Saturdays? Look ahead. Plan ahead. One step at a time.

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